Someday You Will Live The Kind Of Life That You’re Going To Be Proud Of

Someday you will kind of have a general sense of what you truly want to get out of life. Things will sort of calm down. Anyone you will meet from them on out will somehow become part of your life for good. Because you will be good in filtering people.

Someday you will start doing what only matters to you. And you will stop playing games with anyone. You will become more fearful of letting yourself down rather than letting others down. You will look at your watch and decide you don’t have the time to worry about other’s expectations.

Someday the way you will change won’t be as dramatic as the way you did few years back. Every action you will do is calculated. But you’re also not going to be hesitant to make big moves when necessary. You will try to settle things as they arrive rather than postponing them. Because sweeping your issues under the rug will not help you deal with them better.

Someday you will learn so much about the importance of getting to know yourself, learning the kind of love that works out in real world, and living life as if it’s an adventure. You will know that life is tricky. But you will learn how to be smart and strategic in navigating it well. You may never going to be perfect and as put together as you want to. But you will try to create a journey that you’re going to be proud of.

And that will be the kind of goal that will keep you out of bed every morning.

Cco.ac

By Letting Him Go, You’re Finally Giving Yourself The Permission To Be Happy

Watching him smile hand in hand with someone new is going to crush your heart. It’s going to sting one way or another. You’re going to question yourself. Maybe if you gave him all he wanted, he would stay. Maybe if you said yes to everything he said, he would hold on a little longer.

But things end for a reason. Things don’t work out because maybe they’re not meant to. Or because something we deserve more is coming along the way. And by letting him go, you may have more chances of finding what you’re looking for.

Maybe by setting him free, you can finally smile again. You can allow someone enter your life and have them get to know you. The love that you had for him isn’t going to become less just because you decide to move forward without him. What you had with him was special back then. And that will never change.

By letting him share his life with another person, you will free yourself from his pull. His influence to you will fade away like the last streak of sunset before night time. He will become a good distant memory, a person you used to know and loved. And you will be your own person. You will be different.

And you will begin to fall in love again.

Cco..ac

A Letter For You When You Just Don’t Feel Confident In Your Own Skin

I know insecurity can be an enemy sometimes. You look at someone’s plate and wonder why they have more. You try to compare yourself to them and get a tiny stab in your heart once you realize there’s something about them that you don’t. And this is a normal emotion to be having.

As a human being, you are programmed to keep up with the trend. You want to belong, to be included in the group, to experience the worthiness that comes along with being part of a unit. But I want you to please remember that choosing to be different is not wrong. In fact, it’s so much better.

It’s not going to be easy not feeding your insecurity but with tiny steps, you’ll get there. When you start to believe that creating your own path is cool too, you’ll see how able you are to rely on yourself. When you build up the habit of not caring much about what others have to say, you’ll find that you can be anything in this world without anyone’s approval.

Your confidence can only be cultivated by you. Sometimes insecurities come in your way but you need to learn not to give attention to them. Your happiness and well being matter more than people’s opinion. Your journey is unique and you should be proud of it, even though it’s not as good as the next person sitting next to you.

Someday you’re going to grow up and learn that it’s pointless to compare yourself to others. Because your story is all about you. And it’s more beautiful when you own it.

Angelo Caerlang

If No One Has Told You This Today, Please Know That You Are Enough

You sparkle in everything that you do. Your big heart touches anyone you love. And wherever you go, you can be somebody. Darling, you are enough. And I hope you recognize that.

I hope you know that even if it feels like you are hard to love sometimes, you’re still able to complete yourself. That acceptance and validation need to come from within and not having someone special doesn’t make you any less of a person.

You are enough. In the way you carry yourself. In the way you smile. And in the way you look at the world like it’s a magical place.

You are already whole person no matter how many times someone let you down. You are worthy of all the beautiful things in life just because. You’re capable and strong and resilient even if some days you forget that. You, alone, are enough. And if nobody has told you that today, I want you to believe it.

I want you to try not to falter despite not having someone beside you. I want you to keep the fire in your soul burning. I want you to conquer the world and achieve anything your mind thinks. Because you can. Because you’re powerful on your own. Because you are enough.

You can survive this. You can be your own person. And you can give out the kind of love that will change the world. So please don’t ever forget that.

Angelo C.

A Letter For You When You Just Don’t Feel Confident In Your Own Skin

I know insecurity can be an enemy sometimes. You look at someone’s plate and wonder why they have more. You try to compare yourself to them and get a tiny stab in your heart once you realize there’s something about them that you don’t. And this is a normal emotion to be having.

As a human being, you are programmed to keep up with the trend. You want to belong, to be included in the group, to experience the worthiness that comes along with being part of a unit. But I want you to please remember that choosing to be different is not wrong. In fact, it’s so much better.

It’s not going to be easy not feeding your insecurity but with tiny steps, you’ll get there. When you start to believe that creating your own path is cool too, you’ll see how able you are to rely on yourself. When you build up the habit of not caring much about what others have to say, you’ll find that you can be anything in this world without anyone’s approval.

Your confidence can only be cultivated by you. Sometimes insecurities come in your way but you need to learn not to give attention to them. Your happiness and well being matter more than people’s opinion. Your journey is unique and you should be proud of it, even though it’s not as good as the next person sitting next to you.

Someday you’re going to grow up and learn that it’s pointless to compare yourself to others. Because your story is all about you. And it’s more beautiful when you own it.

Written by: ag

Friends with benefits

Friends with Benefits.

Ito yung klaseng relasyon na magkaibigan lang talaga kayo at walang commitment sa isa’t isa pero parang kayo dahil sa pinapakita niyo. Matatawag din landian dahil sa pinaggagawa nyong dalawa.. Sweet kau, my callsign pwede kayong magkayakapan kapag gusto niyo at pwede kayong maghalikan kapag gusto niyo din. Ganyan kayo pero walang matatawag na “TAYO”

Ito ung relasyon na hindi ka dapat makaramdam ng emosyon pero hindi maiiwasan dahil habang tumatagal nahuhulog kana at napapamahal sa taong walang kasiguraduhan na relasyong meron kayo.. May makakaramdam na ng pagtatampo, pagseselos, pagkagalit, at napapaisip na lang kung tama ba ung nararamdam mo. Ung nagseselos ka kasi my kausap syang iba, Nagtatampo ka dahil minsan wala na syang time sau, nagagalit ka kasi sa tingin mo nakikipaglandian na sya sa iba. May karapatan ka pero hindi mo pede ipaglaban. Dahil hindi naman sya sayo at wala naman na matatawag na “TAYO”

Sa ganitong uri ng pagsasama mas nasasaktan ang mga babae kasi mas madali silang mahulog at mainlove sa pinapakita at pinaparamdam ng mga lalake kaya di maiwasan na mag assume sila.

At Sa ganitong pakikisama rin pwedeng may mawala agad o may umiwas kapag nagsawa. Ito yung relasyon na kapag kailangan mo siya andiyan siya pero walang emosyon at walang relasyon kayong pinanghahawakan. Sa panahon natin ngayon, madami na ang ganito ang gusto dahil nga mas nagagawa nila yung gusto nila. Pwede ka makipag landian sa iba kapag wala ka sa mood sa kanya. Kapag ganito yung relasyon niyo wag ka masaktan kapag nawala siya sayo ng biglaan dahil nung una palang dapat inisip muna na pwede talaga siyang mawala kapag nagsawa na siya.

Sa ganito uri din na relasyon mas madalas nauunang magsawa ang mga lalake kasi may mga nakikilala silang iba.
Hindi naman masama magkaroon ng ganitong uri ng relasyon pero pwede niyo namang mas e level up sa pagiging mag syota eh kung gugustuhin niyo lang talaga .

(c) s.sotto

I’m Learning That Before Somebody Can Love Me I Need To Love Myself First.

One baby step at a time, I’m learning that I need to know myself better before I put myself out there. I need to know both the things that I want and don’t want. I need to understand where the paths are going. I need to convince myself that I’m already complete before someone special comes over.

Because having self-awareness helps me accept love more. Knowing my limits allow me to control my temper. And I think creating goals once I’m in a relationship is going to guide me to have a successful companionship with my partner.

I’m learning that the love I can give to myself is the complete reflection of the kind of love I can share to someone else. I’m learning that being kind makes me attractive. And being honest makes others trust me better. That love is strong when two people have such genuine common denominators.

So I’m learning that loving myself is as important as loving someone else. This is how they know that I have a big heart. This is how they know that I can accommodate them in my life. And that I’m able to build a long-lasting foundation with them.

Most of all, I’m learning that love equals selflessness. Romance is not just about me. It’s about us. It’s about surviving life together. It’s about loving myself and loving the other person at the same time and finding the balance in that.

Angelo C.

Dating Someone Who’s Already In A Relationship Is Never A Good Idea

Look, I know we’ve all been there. You fell for a person who is already taken. It might be an accident or on purpose. But either way, it’s wrong. Whatever angle you try to view the situation, it’s just not right. And never will be.

Think about it, if someone really likes you and they’re in a relationship, they will leave the person they’re with. You don’t have to wait. You don’t have to be the second option. If they can’t pick you first now, they aren’t really that serious about you. And chances are, you’ll end up hurting and being branded as the third party.

If the situation had been reversed, I’m sure you would feel bad. You would be upset and think it’s unfair. Because deep down, you know it’s wrong. Dating someone who’s in a relationship will never make you a good person. It may give you happiness temporarily but one day you will wake up and realize how silly you are for getting involved with a person who already has partner.

Forget about the sweet words and promises they told you. Actions, as always, matter more than words. You are worth more than being the side-chick or the third party. There are so much more options for you out there. And you don’t have to put yourself in complicated situations.

Find someone who’s going to make love feels easy. Being with someone who’s already in a relationship will do you no good.

Written by: Angelo C.