empower each other

To the pregnant 🐣women on social media posting constant updates and belly pictures… I love seeing how excited you are to become a mommy.❤

To the person who posts their whereabouts, new gadgets💻, thanks for showing how blessed you are. This will set as a reminder for us to work and strive to achieve our goals.👍🏼

To the 👧💁women posting selfies…thanks for letting young girls know that it’s okay to love yourself and to feel beautiful!💜

To the mom posting a million pictures of her👧👦 👶 kids… it makes my heart so happy to see parents so proud of and loving their babies!💚👫👬👭

To the 💍👰💏 married couple constantly posting happy love posts….thank you for being a reminder to the next generation that all hope isn’t lost and happy marriages most definitely DO exist.💋

To the business owners who constantly post about their businesses… keep going! Your 💪 strong will and passion for what you do is outstanding! Even in the midst of all the negative remarks, you keep on going for yourself and your family!💎

To the person posting about their fitness journey and how they decided to change their lifestyle for health reasons or just to look or feel better about themselves… I love seeing your progress pictures, your healthy meals 🍎, gym check ins💪… I especially love seeing your before and after pictures!!👦👧

To the stay at home mom posting about being able to cook and or bake 🍜u seeing how you manage👏 being a hard working mom. 👪👫

Let’s stop being annoyed by everything and start lifting each other up! 😘 🙌❤🙌

#EmpowerEachOther
#BeTheChange
#MakingThisWorldBetter

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At The End You Will Regret Losing The Woman Who Waited For You To Get Your Shit Together

You will regret losing her because she was the kind of girl who would be racing to send you a reply on her phone because she didn’t want you to think that she was making you wait.

One day, you’re going to wake up and you’re going to realize that she’s no longer waking up beside you -and she’s probably going to be waking up elsewhere for the rest of your days. She’s actually going to choose to be with someone who deliberately chooses to be with her every day. She is going to choose to love someone who loves her back just as much something that you never did for her. You might cross paths a few more times in the future, but it won’t matter much to her. She might not even take notice of you because she’s too happy with the love that she has now. She will look like that same girl who once loved you but with one significant difference she loves someone else now.

She will no longer look and lock eyes with you the way that she used to. She is no longer going to drool over the sight of you. Her heart is no longer going to skip a beat at the thought of you. She isn’t going to romanticize you any longer. Know why? Because when she found out that you would never be willing to give her the love that she gave you, then she just chose to devote all of that love to herself instead. And she became infinitely happier as a result. You are going to notice a confidence in her that you’ve never seen before the same kind of confidence that you threatened every single day you were together.

And when you start to take notice of the fact that she’s more sure about herself, you’re going to feel a pinch of regret. You’re going to kick yourself for not loving her the way that she deserved to be loved. You’re going to regret losing a girl who only wanted to love you.

You’re going to miss her so much but you’re never going to get the chance to win her back. You are going to grow regretful of the way that she chose to love you convincingly and wholeheartedly. She was the kind of girl who would always be ready to talk about you and make you the center of attention in the relationship. She was the kind of girl who would be racing to send you a reply on her phone because she didn’t want you to think that she was making you wait. She was the kind of girl whose phone calls you rarely ever returned because you didn’t think she would be worth the time.

And then you’re going to give in to a few of your temptations. You’re going to look over your old pictures and mementos. You’re going to reminisce about the great times that you had with her and you’re going to learn to appreciate them now because you never really did make the effort to appreciate them as they were happening. It’s only now where you will really start to take notice of the little things that she did for you and the relationship. It’s only now where you will really develop your attention to detail. It’s only now where you will really learn about just how good you had it and how stupid you are for letting it go.

You’re going to miss the times where she would randomly bring you a gift just to showcase her thoughtfulness. You’re going to miss the times where she would try to hit you up just to check up on you and see how you’re doing. You’re going to miss how she always told you that she loved you consistently – to the point where you didn’t really pay much attention to it anymore.

And in these moments of vulnerability, your feelings and emotions are going to come crashing down on you like a fallen building. You’re going to be remorseful at the idea of you never find another girl who will love you the way that she did. You are going to be sad at the fact that you’ve just lost a girl who deserved so much more than you ever gave her. You’re going to regret losing the girl who loves you too much.

And now you’re just going to wallow in your sadness. You’re just going to drown in your sea of regret because there’s not much you can do to win her back. She’s chosen to move on and she’s happy because of it. In this scenario, you are the one who came out as the loser. You have to move on but it’s going to be so much harder for you. Because really, how can anyone ever move on from the one person who loved them in ways that no one else ever could or ever will? She was one of a kind. And you let her go.

I still pray

I still pray for your success, happiness and peace of mind.

I still pray for your success, happiness and peace of mind.

I still miss you, but I will not go back with you if it means losing myself again.

I still care for you, but I will not show it deeply if it means I need to be hurt again.

I still love you, but I will not invest a part of myself anymore if it means I will still be left broken.

I still have a lot of whys right now. So much what ifs that are bothering me. But I guess I need to be braver this time and slowly let go. It is just that we are not meant to be.

njc

NAKAKULONG KAHIT WALANG SALA, NALULONG KAHIT WALANG BATO SA DILA

Ni: Jay Adam Mallapre

NAKASAL tayo sa makabagong teknolohiya.
NASAKAL sa iba’t ibang handog ng social media.
LAKASAN man natin ang pagbibigay ng paalala,
NAKALAS pa rin ang tali ng ating pagkakaisa.

SAANG dako man magpunta, sa cellphone nakatutok.
Tila GANSA nang nakayuko, hindi nangangalay ang batok.
Maipakita lang ang ANGAS o yabang sa Facebook.
Tunay na ang SANGA ng pasikatan ay umabot na sa tuktok.

Ang KALÀT na pulubi, tutulungan kunwari.
Magbibigay ng isang TAKAL na bigas, selfie sabay ngiti.
Tumulong sa mahirap, kunwari walang TALAK na ibabahagi,
‘Yon pala ipopost para lang makakuha ng kahit LATAK na komento basta may libong likes na minimithi.

Kahit ang bansa’y may BATAS, lalabagin para lang sumikat.
Ang bastos na TABAS ng dila ibabahagi pa sa lahat.
BASTA makasabay lang sa uso at magkaroon ng likes na sapat.
Sa mga post na walang kabuluhan, do’n pa SABAT nang sabat.

Sa GITNA ng masayang paligid, ba’t tayo nagpapakulong,
Sa ATING mga cellphone na ngayo’y wala nang naitutulong.
Ang GANTI ng palagiang paggamit, sa ati’y ‘di magpapasulong.
Ang TANGI nitong epekto’y pag-usad na parang pagong.

Nakakulong kahit walang SALA,
Nanunuot ang LASA ng pangungulila.
Ang ASAL sa paggamit ng teknolohiya,
Numero uno o alas na tila nangunguna.

Nalulong kahit walang bato sa dila, GINAWA nang libangan ang paggamit sa kan’ya.
WAGIAN sana natin at tuluyan nang makalaya ang bawat isa.
AGAWIN natin ang mga nalulong na’t nakakadena.
NAGAWI tayo sa social media para magkaroon ng komunikasyon sa iba,
Hindi para gawin ang GAWAIN na hindi tama at magbahagi ng masasamang ideya.

– photo ctto

The chosen one

Ang swerte ng mga taong pinili.

Kasi di nila naramdaman yung mareject mula dun sa taong akala mo may chance maging sayo pero wala pala.

Bakit kasi kailangan pa nilang iparamdam satin na mahalaga tayo? na mahal nila tayo pero sa huli di pa rin pala sapat na suklian mo yung pagmamahal nila kasi aalis pa din sila.

Alam ko naman lahat may hangganan, nagkamali ako, nagkamali tayo.

Sabi mo hanggat wala pa yung problema wag muna natin problemahin. Pero mali e sa umpisa pa lang nandun na yung problema di lang natin inintindi.

Nakakainggit lang yung tipong kailangan ko maghintay ng oras na kaya mo lang ibigay. Ang sakit mo pa lang mahalin, pero ikaw yung happy pill ko.

Kapag nasa sitwasyon kana pala na pumatol ka sa taong may karelasyon na hindi mo na iintindhin yung sasabihin ng iba kasi ang mahalaga sayo masaya ka. Wala kang pake kung sabihan ka man na POKPOK MALANDI HALIPAROT lahat ng masasakit na yan balewala lang yan kasi di sila yung nakakapagpasaya sayo.

Pero at the end of the day makokonsensya ka pa din, kaya naman kitang ipaglaban ang hindi ko nga lang kaya kalabanin yung taong hindi lumalaban kahinaan ko yun.

Alam ko kapag nalaman nya masasaktan mo sya ng sobra, kaya nga hindi ko na hinayaan dumating pa dun, ako na sating dalawa ang bumitaw, dahil alam ko naman sya pa din ang pipiliin mo at sya naman talaga dapat.

Tinanggap ko na kahit man mapasaya kita ng sobra babalik at babalik ka dun sa taong nagmamay-ari talaga sayo..

your getting there

There will be moments in your life that you are on the verge of giving up. When your baggages are too heavy and you are just tired of everything.

You are tired of of all the challenges that you are currently battling. You are tired of people not treating you right. You are tired of how life can be so unfair.

No one has a perfect life. Everyone has their own battles. Always see the beauty of your struggles. They all happen for a reason. To teach you a lesson…to make you stronger…to strengthen your faith. At the end of the day, it will make you a better person.

Life is harsh sometimes, but there are a lot of reasons to keep on living. Never lose that hope in your heart. Someday, everything will make sense. Your heart will no longer be heavy. You can soon smile without the need to fake it. Your dreams will soon be realized.

Just hold on a bit longer. You are getting there!

njc