the guy who stopped choosing her

To the guy who stopped choosing her,

You stopped choosing her, and she can feel it. You don’t think she knows, but she does. You don’t think she could tell? How could she not know? How could she not notice that you’re more detached now? How could she not notice that you’re not as excited around her? How could she not notice that you don’t love her as much as you did before? Sure, everyone has their days where they feel disconnected and out of touch with themselves so she can understand that you’re not gonna express how much you love her every single day, but when you completely stop reassuring her of what she means to you, that tells her you just don’t care enough anymore. You don’t care enough to appreciate her laughter, her beauty, her playfulness, her sensuality, her personality, and her love when she’s at her best like you used to. Instead, you’re more focused on her anger, her insecurities, her flaws, her bitterness, her immaturity, and her hatred when those things showed themselves when she’s at her worst. Instead of working with her, you only chose to see more of her at her worst and showed her your worst as well and in doing so, cause you two to drift apart. You focused more on what you disliked about her than what you adored about her, which made you despise her, which made you push her away, which made you abandon her. The worst part about all of this is, you stopped choosing her and you’re still with her, which gives her hope that things will fall back into place one day. Right now, she’s reading this and realizing that it won’t, because you don’t want to choose her anymore.

Don’t be with a guy who doesn’t choose you every day.