​Here’s How It Hurts To Feel Like He’s Not Just Into You

Here’s How It Hurts To Feel Like He’s Not Just Into You

By: Angelo Caerlang – Writer
One of the worst feelings in the world is when you fall in love with a guy who doesn’t have the audacity to tell you that he can’t love you back. The guy who low-key makes you feel like trash from the inside out. 
The guy who makes you feel embarrassed with everything that you have done for him.
At one point in your life, you might’ve been disillusioned by convincing yourself that if you flirt enough, you can get that man you’ve been eyeing. You allow your confidence to sky-rocket because why not? 
You look fine as hell. Your personality doesn’t suck. You are definitely qualified to date him.
But it doesn’t always work that way. Getting a guy to like you doesn’t require a shiny resume. Although your level of fame and number of followers on social media are a boost to your dating reputation, in today’s dating culture — it’s a lot more complicated than that.
Most guys want their satisfactions to be fulfilled endlessly, and you have to always be careful not to bore them. 
Because then, they’re going to move on to another girl with whom they think they’ll find what they’re looking for. Next thing you know, you’re going home with your shoulders slumped, head swirling with the thought, “Well. I guess he’s not into me.”
And it sucks.
It sucks that you don’t know how to play games with guys who only desire casual relationships. It sucks that you are born in an era when love is defined in a twisted way. It sucks that you are always clueless about how to play it cool.  
You can’t help but think: Is this really the kind of dating world we all live in right now? A world where men identify themselves as hopeless romantics just because the phrase sounds good. 
A world where men always end up saying, “I hate to break it to you, but you’re not really my type.”
He’s just not into you.
He doesn’t see you as someone who can take the role of girlfriend in his life. He thinks you’re too caring. He’s worried that you’re going to be one of those batshit crazy, needy girlfriends. 
And he doesn’t like that.
He likes someone who doesn’t ask too many questions. He likes someone who’s not touchy, and is on the same page with him about not putting labels on a relationship. 
He just wants the kind of girl who’s chill, and is okay to be dropped like a hot potato whenever he feels like it.
But maybe there’s a blessing in hearing, those words. Maybe there’s something good to draw from, “I’m sorry. I’m just not into you.”
Maybe your life will become so much better than settling for a total loser who’s probably going to end up living alone in his apartment with his video gaming consoles. Maybe you’re worth more than just the moment.
Maybe you will be appreciated by a guy who’s more stable and responsible than the one who rejected you. A guy who will think your questions are all valid, and will not consider you as too emotional.
So instead of occasionally seeking out for guys who will potentially just storm off to a different direction without even bothering to say goodbye to you, perhaps you need to start looking for the one who will make you think, 
“Damn. Where have you been all this time?”